Why is it so difficult to meet love? I just don't understand it and am suffering from this. Please advise me?

I'm a woman of 48 who thankfully looks and feels about 33. This is due to keeping active and eating well. I've had a good career and lots of lovely friends. My only heartache is that is seems so difficult to have a relationship which works and lasts. Sure I've had two serious boyfriends, one for a year and a half who wanted to marry but I wasn't into him enough to settle. The second was 14 years younger and ended the relationship after 4 years as he couldn't commit for a life. I am a good person and would love to meet someone with whom it works. I've tried dance cles, travelling and even internet dating clubs all to no avail. I usually go about my day without focussing on this as I tend to take it in my stride. This helped by the fact that I often get asked out and do feel attractive. The problem is that I'm only really attracted to much younger guys. I don't want a guy who has children. However, after the most recent breakup with a guy of 24 (we dated for 2 months) I feel that it is so hopeless. This hurt me a bit as I liked him so much even though he had a serious drink problem and knew it couldn't continue. I started saying to myself 'am I a ?', it was that bad! I know I'm not a of course but why is it so difficult? Thanks for any advice.

Ok my finch died now what do i do about his mate?

his mate is very healthy but u think she is depressed i dont know weather to replace the finch that died or to get her used to being alone what should i do now

In sports is there a way to get an entire previous season worth of games anywhere, online or in dvd form?

I've missed a couple seasons of football through work and other reasons. I'm just wondering if there is anyplace out there, for example, I could get the 2007-2008 season of the Green Bay Packers or the Saints? I've seen season highlight videos a plenty but not complete games anywhere. I was also looking to become a fan of NRL rugby and would love seasons worth of games for that as well.

Does the age dif matter? i really like him..?

I have been friends with this guy for about a year now. hes really nice, and we get along great. im 13, grade 9 and hes 16, grade 10. we both have a month left these ages. since the start of the year, i have been having feelings for him, and think he has been for me too. were always hugging, sit with eachother at lunch and on the bus (he sits right next to me so we can feel our bodies touching) and talk on msn every night. sometimes when we greet he'll say hi hunnie, and he's really sweet. were always having joke arguments where theyll end with me saying i hate you to him and him replying no you dont you love me. i think i love him or atleast really REALLY like him, but im not sure if its ok... im not allowed to date anyone, though ive dated two guys without telling my mum, and then theres what others will think. we go to a private christian high school and people can be pretty mean there. last week i lied to mum bout who i was with to hang out with him as friends and we had a really great time. what should i do and is this right?

Does anyone understand about m spectroscopy?

see this wonderful site: a href="http://www.chemguide.co.uk/ysis/mpec/howitworks.html" rel="nofollow"http://www.chemguide.co.uk/ysis/m…/a there's each and every explanation of m spectrometry

Do you think it would be better if we did away with the electoral college so every vote would count.?

This way your individual vote would have meaning regardless if you lived in a red or blue state. and your vote would be just as valuable if you lived in California or Rhode Island.

Whats wrong with my Dog?

My dog is a multise poodle and she has been sick for the past 3 days. She is definitly dehidrated and she keeps on throwing up or having diareha. she has definitly lost a bit of wait. does any one know what i can give her to make her feel better. i have tried rice, new dog food and even crackers. Roxy (my dog) usually is hiper and happy but now shes always tired and stuff. shes only a year old and im worried. should i wrap her up in blankets? I dont know what to do she is my first dog. If you can please help me! (If you wanna talk to me my email is nick_rocks9626@yahoo.com) PLZ HELP!